Sometimes, love requires truth that cuts through confusion. Hexagram 21 is the crack of clarity, the moment when what has been avoided must be faced. This is not a time for evasionâit is a time for honesty.
If something in your relationship feels blocked or unjust, speak it. Not to wound, but to clear the way. Love cannot breathe beneath resentment or silence. Bite through the tension, gently but firmly, and let the truth be known.
If you are alone and patterns repeat, look closelyâwhat within asks to be broken open or seen differently? Real intimacy begins with clear inner seeing.
It reminds us that love is not just softness; it is strength with purpose. A bond deepens not when everything is smooth, but when both hearts are willing to face what is difficultâtogether.
Only by biting through can love be made clean again.
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