Love invites us not only to feel, but to see. Hexagram 20 is the still gaze, the quiet watching, the sacred pause before action. It asks you to observe with your whole heartâwithout judgement, without haste.
This is a time to step back and reflect. If you are in a relationship, look deeplyânot just at the other, but at how you show up in love. Are you present? Are you open? Are you clinging, or truly connected?
If you are seeking love, turn your gaze inward first. The heart, when seen clearly, attracts what resonates with its truth. What you contemplate now becomes the foundation of what you welcome later.
It teaches that love matures through awareness. Not everything must be said. Not every desire must be acted on. Sometimes, to witness loveâto honour it with silence and presenceâis the most loving act of all.
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