The relationship is in flood-tide: ease, warmth, and help arriving from all directions. Spend the season deliberately. Undertake the big things now — the commitment, the move, the repair too hard in leaner times; blessings like this exist to be built with, and there's even room for error (line 1: mistakes made in sincere effort self-correct in a time of increase). Practise the image's two disciplines: see good in your partner, imitate it; find faults in yourself, drop them — the couple's fastest growth algorithm. And keep the flow moving: generosity downward — toward each other's weaker moments, and outward beyond the pair — is what keeps the tide in. Line 6 is the season's only real danger: the partner who takes the increase and passes none on ends isolated, and struck from an unexpected quarter.
Increase in Love
Love and relationships
Love's season of increase — build boldly and give generously.
Read this hexagram through closeness, attraction, partnership, and emotional timing.
Hexagram 42 in love means increase: a season of blessing where the connection grows with a tailwind — warmth compounding, generosity returning multiplied. Use it: deepen, commit, cross the great water together. The season's one law is circulation — increase shared keeps flowing; increase hoarded stops.
Your capacity is increasing — confidence, openness, opportunity — and the counsel is to act on the season: it furthers to undertake something. Move toward what draws you; initiate boldly and sincerely, because ventures launched on this tide carry. Enrichment may even come through the season's misfortunes (line 3): the disappointing date, the brief wrong turn — in a time of increase, even these instruct and strengthen. Keep the heart steady amid the abundance (the season stirs appetite as well as growth), and give as you receive: the most attractive thing about a person in increase is what flows through them to others.
The shadow is the tide misused: carelessness (assuming the season is permanent, discipline dissolved into it), appetite (growth converted to greed — for attention, reassurance, more), and withholding — the increase received and hoarded, which reverses the whole current. Watch also the ego's credit-taking: this weather wasn't your achievement; gratitude keeps the sails full where entitlement luffs them.
The six lines in love
Great deeds are favoured
The tailwind is real: undertake the big step now. Sincere effort at scale succeeds — and even its mistakes self-correct.
The increase none can oppose
Love the good for its own sake, and blessing gathers that nothing can block. What was lost is restored by the same law.
Enriched through misfortune
Even the season's blows feed you — the hurt that instructs, the loss that redirects. Stay sincere and centred, and adversity joins the increase.
The trusted intermediary
You're the bridge — between partner and family, between two sides of a decision. Serve the transmission impartially, and your counsel moves great things.
Kindness that does not ask
Generosity so natural it never checks for recognition — and is therefore recognised everywhere. The apex of the season.
Increase withheld
Taking without passing on: the heart unsteadied by acquisition. The flow reverses — resume the giving before the season closes on the wrong side.
What big step belongs in this favourable season, before it turns?
What good habit of my partner's could I simply imitate this month?
Is the increase flowing through me — or pooling?
Switch the lens
Hexagram 42, Increase, signals growth, support, and expansion that must be handled with generosity, humility, and right use.
A season of increase — build boldly and pass the gains downward.
A tailwind season — build boldly, and pass the gains downward.
The household's season of increase — build boldly and give downward.
Money's season of increase — build boldly, keep it flowing.
The wind is with you — imitate good, root out faults, build.
Learning flies with a tailwind now — attempt the hard thing.
A fertile season with a tailwind — build boldly, give freely.
Act now — the wind is with you; cross the great water.
A season of blessing — use it, and pass it downward.
A season of growing circles — build boldly, give generously.
A change with a tailwind — build boldly, and pass it on.
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